by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Some chapters of our lives are best kept to ourselves. Some parts of our lives are best kept concealed. Some past memories are best kept confidential. And some aspects of our being are more personal to us. And while we may choose to be open and authentic about who we...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Our God is the most amazing artist. It reminds me that some will always find fault in everything and in everyone. Seeing the positive in situations is hard for some. Gratitude is much more than a fleeting “thank you.” It’s a deep appreciation within yourself for the...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
It is clear that God wants us to live intentionally. He desires us to make wise choices that benefit our well-being and help us remain close to Him. We simply can’t do that if we don’t love ourselves. If we don’t grasp and appreciate our value, we won’t treat...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
If you’re feeling a little lost, it’s okay. If your ambitions, dreams, desires, wants, and needs have changed, it’s okay. It’s been two years of a pandemic. It’s okay if it has changed you. It’s okay if you’re meeting yourself for the first time, or again. It’s okay...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
I’m a recovered runner. And I’m not talking about the athletic kind. I mean the kind that when things got tough, I ran. When relationships hit a rough patch, I ran. When there was drama, I ran. When there was confrontation, I ran. I ran from feelings, emotions, and...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
I wish that I could tell you that you won’t go through hard times. I wish that I could protect you from hurt. I wish that I could tell you that bad things will never happen to you. But I can’t. What I can tell you is that God has it under control. He does truly have...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
I used to spend summers with my grandparents. One week out of the summer I would attend vacation bible school for a few hours and then spend the rest of the day riding my bike down country roads or lazy afternoons on the front porch breaking beans with my Mamaw. One...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Have you ever been told you’re not good enough? You’re not pretty enough? You’re not loved? You’re not worthy? You’ll never make it on your own? You’re not skinny enough? The list could go on and on. Words are damaging. Just because no physical harm is done, it’s...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and the ignorant; they too have...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
I’m a really good listener.I try to be fair, non judgmental, intuitive, and give the best advice I can offer. I love that people look to me for advice. It is the highest form of flattery and friendship. I have friends that are 20 , 30, 40, and higher. No matter...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Thankful… Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. For our family, it’s a day to gather together and take stock of our blessings. Like all of you, during the roller coaster ride of life, our family has experienced times of great joy and moments of deep sadness, but there...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
This has been a year of being called to “be still”. To sit in my waiting. To surrender to the desire to control situations. To be quiet. To not engage. Silence can make us uncomfortable because we’re so used to distracting ourselves from what we’re really feeling. Be...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Life is hard. People are hard. It seems like we now live in a world where people are hardening their hearts. I get it. Survival mode. Totally get it. If we put walls up around our heart, we can’t get hurt. We are so easily agitated these days. Easily offended. Quick...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
I haven’t shared very much this year. And there’s a perfectly good reason for that. When you are living your life under a microscope and someone is watching your every move and hanging on your every word, you have a tendency to shut down. There’s a need for privacy....
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
What is extra? What does it mean when referring to someone as being “extra”? Is it a negative or positive thing? Extra: Definition- Over the top. Excessive or dramatic behavior. What does being extra really mean ? Authenticity — Being extra, in most cases,...
by admin | May 26, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
I had some content prepared for today. But something bigger came to me yesterday morning. I apologize in advance that these words might not be for you. But they may resonate. I usually share my thoughts in hopes that it might have an impact on someone else. But today...
by admin | May 24, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Let’s talk about perspective. Are you feeling anxious? Sad? Overwhelmed? Lost? Empty? Lonely? If so, you have every right to feel that way. You have every right to express that. I am reminded every day just how lucky I am in every aspect of my life. I woke up today. I...
by admin | May 24, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Have you ever heard the old saying “hurt people hurt people”? Am I right? How true is this statement? When you are an empath, you feel everybody else’s feels. Sometimes you feel it for them because they are incapable of it themselves. When you’re a listener, you are...
by admin | May 24, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
It’s hard to let go of things that no longer serve you. Most of the time hanging on does more harm than good. Are you wondering if it’s time to let go? Ask yourself these questions: Is it still relevant? If it isn’t growing you or making a positive impact on...
by admin | May 24, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Enough is Enough Know your worth. I think these 3 words are the most overused, under rated and unappreciated words we can use. Do you really know your worth? Like deep down, 100% know your worth. Forget the memes. Forget the Instagram and Tik Tok videos. Dig deep and...
by admin | May 24, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
This morning I sat down with my coffee to do the usual….spend my day in front of a computer screen [because that’s what I do]. But then a little voice in my head [or a bigger one from above] said…why don’t you get outside for awhile today?...
by admin | May 24, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Sometimes life throws you a curveball. At other times, your GPS seems completely off course.We all have a story. Every story is different. Mine might go something like this… “There was a time that she couldn’t see the light. Too fragile and broken to gather her senses...
by admin | May 24, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly. Some too dearly. Many of them have good intentions. Most are toxic to our being simply because their needs and ways of existing in the world force us to compromise ourselves and our happiness....
by admin | May 24, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Giving and expecting reciprocity is NOT giving, but rather an attitude of mercantile exchange where one offers something and expects something in return (gratitude, praise or respect, etc.)! You will always be disappointed when you demand gratitude and respect. Those...
by admin | May 24, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
I know, I know, you’ve already asked Him a million times, I see those eyes rolling. But today, ask Him a million and one. Yes. Ask Him AGAIN. Ask Him again for that child to come home. That marriage to be healed. That mountain to move. Ask Him again for that...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
This weekend I took a road trip with a few girlfriends to Cherokee NC. I know most of you are thinking that we hit the casino. Negatory. Believe it or not we made the pilgrimage to a healing revival. (No snakes were involved). None of us knew what to expect. But how...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
My life has been a roller coaster the past few years. I’ve spent a lot of time lately reflecting, praying and…waiting. Here’s what I’ve learned the hard way, so listen well ladies of all ages. God’s best won’t be stolen or taken… His best for you won’t...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Remember that day when you woke up and looked around and realized your house was a disaster? That there were piles of clutter everywhere, pet hair, stacks of mail and miscellaneous nonsense everywhere you look ? That you’ve moved 3 times in a year and a half....
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
It takes great courage to remain silent. It takes great courage not to reply when you’re being antagonized. It takes great courage to have your personal life exposed. It takes great courage to leave those things on your social media for the world to see. It takes...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Happy International Women’s Day. Thankful for all the women in my life that get up, show up and get it done every day. You are stronger than you’ll ever know. You got to this point because you chose not to play the victim card. You took responsibility for yourself and...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
A few weeks ago, we were given the Myers Briggs Personality Test at work. I had taken it years ago. My results really haven’t changed much over the years. Fast fact about me that even my closest friends and family don’t know…. I have a Master’s in Clinical Psychology....
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
“Be careful with your words. Once they are said, they can only be forgiven, not forgotten.” Lashing out, saying things in anger, yelling, name calling, demeaning, putting someone down…all of these things create wounds that are far slower to heal than a physical wound...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
If there’s one thing that I am 100% positive of, it’s that women are AMAZING !!! I have had the pleasure of meeting women from all walks of life. Maybe I just meet the spectacular ones. Or maybe I just see the spectacular in them that no one else sees. Women are...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Believe in your children, and tell them often that you do. Guide them when they are young. Take time to give them your full attention. When they ask questions, try to look them in the eye and answer to your best ability. Be firm, yet loving. Lead by example. Take time...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Todays thoughts come from a very raw place. I just want to speak the name of Jesus over every heart and every mind. ‘Cause I know there is peace within your presence, I speak Jesus. I’m incredibly grateful today that I speak Jesus. I am incredibly grateful that...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
I’m so thankful that God writes the story of my life, because He has written it much more beautifully than I ever could have. I know He’s not done with me yet. I’m still a work in progress. I’m still growing and evolving. I’m also still making mistakes and bad choices...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Today I’m feeling JOYFUL. Joyful to the depths of my soul. I’m joyful because I’ve put the time in to heal. I’m joyful for answered prayers. I’m joyful for peace and clarity. I’m joyful that toxicity has been removed from my life. I’m joyful that delusional negativity...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
How often do we not have a clue? How often do we selfishly ignore others’ hurt and hardship? How often do we ignore God’s pleas for us to fiercely love one another? Our Heavenly Father has given us another year. Another year to love. Another year to give....
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Over the years, November has become my favorite month. Thanksgiving has become my favorite holiday. There’s something so very peaceful about the seasonal change. November is also a great time to say no to negativity, stress, anxiety, toxic relationships and things...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
We can use our words for blessings, or we can use or words for cursing. Our tongues, in their natural state, bring forth rotten fruit. Rotten Fruits of the Tongue: Gossip Belittling Cursing Bragging Sarcasm Manipulation Exaggeration Insult Lying Complaining If we are...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Just an important reminder if you’re going to be dealing with someone who enjoys pushing your buttons. Remember, what others say and do does not define you in any way. It is actually just a perception of what they see and feel. So don’t take it personally. It’s not...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
What season are you in? While your understanding of the current situation or season may seem slow in coming, and years may pass (sometimes a lifetime) before God gives you a clue or opens your heart and eyes to receive the truth, He will counsel and guide you, and He...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Thoughts for Thursday: Yesterday I was on my way home from work when a dear girlfriend of mine called and asked to meet for an impromptu dinner. These times are so special and much appreciated. Girlfriends are crucial to have in your life. I believe that as we get...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
God desires us to make wise choices that benefit our well-being and help us remain close to Him. We simply can’t do that if we don’t love ourselves. If we don’t grasp and appreciate our value, we won’t treat ourselves with respect. This may mean we talk negatively...
by admin | May 23, 2023 | Thoughts for Thursday
Have you ever been in a season of waiting? My given message this year has consistently been “Be Still.” Blessings usually arrive when God determines that we are completely ready to receive them; heart, mind and soul. If our heart isn’t in the right place, if our...
