I’m a really good listener.I try to be fair, non judgmental, intuitive, and give the best advice I can offer. I love that people look to me for advice. It is the highest form of flattery and friendship. I have friends that are 20 , 30, 40, and higher. No matter the age, the content is the same. We are all looking for the same answers. The most beautiful thing that makes up a woman’s soul is her ability to give and give and give some more. We do it because we want to.We do it because it is ingrained in us. Sometimes it feels like we have the weight of the world on our shoulders…and often times we do. Maybe it’s the stage of life that I am in. I often have conversations with empty nesters and women who recently have gotten divorced. After years of being staying at home moms {the very best and rewarding job on the planet-no question!} we look in the mirror and wonder what are we going to do now? We have heard all our lives about making goals. Usually this pertains to our careers right? I believe that before you can move forward and figure out what it is that you want to do, you must first figure out your LIFE goals.For example….the following is the goal that I wrote for myself, and I am not embarrassed to share that with you. Hopefully it will help you in some way:

My life goal is to be so busy loving my life and family that I have no time for hate, regret, worry, or fear.

Once you decide what you want out of life, everything else will fall into place just as God intended.